What You Think is Harmless: Is Actually Killing Your Chances to Meet Your True Mate

I’m ok being single.

I like my independence.

I like where I am.

How do often do you say that to yourself to beat back your actual thoughts?

Is he really out there?

Do I deserve to be cherished?

Why am I not attracting the guy?


Looking on the “positive” side …

Making the “best” of the situation …

Staying up beat all the time …

Is Killing your Chances of Meeting Your True Mate

If you’re not willing to admit to yourself how much you want to be met by your beloved,

If you’re not able to declare how much you desire an equal partnership where you cherish each other,

If you can’t even say out loud that you desire to be with a love who respects you,

Then How Will You and the Universe Call in Your Sacred Relationship?

You don’t want to be positive: you want to be taking day trips on weekends with your true love

You don’t want to make the best of being alone for yet another holiday season: you want to be snuggled up on the couch watching Game of Thrones with your beloved

You don’t want to stay upbeat: you want to spend your days apart texting each other love emojis and feeling excited butterflies

Stop Denying Yourself Your Desires by Being Positive or Staying Upbeat or Making the Best of it

Why? Because it’s all a cop out and a lie. 

You’re lying to yourself and pushing all your ACTUAL desires further and further away.

I used to lie to myself all the time. 

I thought it was the only way to keep my vibration high.

I ended up having one dysfunctional relationship after another through my 20s and 30s and spent most of my late 30s/early 40s single and alone: All While “Looking on the Bright Side.”

Until I was able to get real with myself and heal the deep pain and give voice to the way I truly wanted to live my life, I stayed in this painful pattern.

And now I live with the love of my life where each day gets better and better

And now I experience my desires in real time of someone who loves me for who I am

And now I spend my days cooking with him and going away on weekends and traveling to amazing places--living my relationship dreams!

This is what is possible for you!



I understand the agony of denial from personal experience and from my 20 years of professional experience as a Counselor, Healer and Intuitive.

I know the only way out of it is to stop all those BS coping skills and connect with clarity, purpose and conviction to your desires.

This is the journey I take you on in my powerful 1:1 work with clients. 

Get honest

Get clear

Get into action

Meet your True Mate

Simple, but not easy. That’s why I’m here to hold your hand every step of the way. 

If this resonates I would love to talk to you so you can let this be your last holiday alone while pasting a smile on your face and being incredibly upbeat.  

Posted on September 4, 2019 .