HOW DO YOU ATTRACT YOUR TRUE SOULMATE
WHEN LITERALLY EVERYTHING IS STACKED AGAINST YOU?
I had every possible reason to feel hopeless about finding my TRUE SOULmate (someone who would accept me for who I really am).
I had all the worst deficits:
Non-traditional views, raised by Buddhist parents, a healer: basically freakie deakie!
An almost perfect score of having relationships with men who were alcoholics or drug addicts or mentally unstable or all of the above
Self-imposed 10 year stretch of being single (to make sure I didn’t hook up with one of the above kinds of men); by the way, it didn’t work at the time
Which is why I’m here to tell you my story of how I found my TRUE SOULmate.
MY “HELL NO!” POINT
Shortly after moving across the country to my hometown of Vancouver, I reunited with an ex-boyfriend from 25 years ago at a time when I was living on my mom’s couch (past the age of 40!) and had been single for ten years. You know, a really stable time in my life where I could be trusted to make reasonable decisions.
Our relationship was an intense and traumatic tight-rope walk between the past and the present ending in a crash and burn to top all crash and burns.
I was knocked to my hands and knees.
When I was able to function again, I told the Universe that I was NEVER GOING TO GO THROUGH THAT AGAIN.
I didn’t care what had to happen or what it would take I was going to break the devastating pattern of swinging between isolation and highly dysfunctional relationships.
THE BUCK STOPS HERE
I stopped blaming my parents
I stopped complaining about how there were no good men left
I stopped believing the story that I was too fucked up and weird to have a loving relationship with a quality man
I STOPPED EVERYTHING
And went about the serious business of finding my TRUE SOULmate
EXACTLY 10 MONTHS LATER I MET MY TRUE SOULMATE
He is stable and strong in every way--emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually
He is loving
He is funny
He is sexy
He is healthy
He is kind
He is smart
He is financially stable
He loves me for who I am
He supports me in every aspect of my life
He is 100% reliable
He is 100% committed to me